2022 A Year of Big Losses and Big Achievements
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Reflecting on the year 2022, it stands as a chapter defined by perseverance, challenges, and a mosaic of experiences. The culmination of an arduous journey was marked by the completion of my doctoral studies, a milestone achieved through relentless dedication. However, amidst personal triumphs, our lives were overshadowed by profound sorrow as we bid farewell to my wife’s mother, experiencing the profound grief that comes with loss. “What goes away does not come back.” This simple yet profound observation encapsulates the inevitability of change and the irreversible nature of certain experiences. Life is a continuous journey, and moments, once lived, become part of the tapestry of our past.
On a brighter note, our son embarked on a new chapter by starting school, where he not only delved into the world of education but also learned the fundamental skills of reading and writing. Witnessing these firsts alongside him became a source of joy and a reminder of the beauty inherent in life’s simple yet significant moments.
Motivated by the desire to document and share our experiences, I decided to create this website, a digital canvas to capture the essence of our journey, from academic achievements to personal milestones. It serves as a testament to the multifaceted nature of life and the stories that shape our existence.
The year also unfolded with a second visit to Istanbul, a city that never fails to enchant with its rich history and vibrant culture. Over the course of 10 days, we immersed ourselves in the myriad of places the city has to offer, solidifying our appreciation for the beauty and diversity encapsulated within its bounds.
However, not all encounters were as uplifting. At my workplace, I faced the shortcomings of certain individuals, realizing the undue importance I had accorded to unwarranted opinions. This revelation prompted a recalibration of priorities and a heightened awareness of investing energy where it truly matters.
In the realm of the unexpected, my car experienced its first breakdown on the road, leaving me stranded for the first time. This episode served as a reminder of life’s unpredictability and the resilience required to navigate unforeseen challenges.
In essence, 2022 was a year of growth, both personal and intellectual, marked by triumphs, losses, and the invaluable lessons that come with living a full and varied life. As I reflect on the highs and lows of the past year, I carry forward the wisdom gained, ready to embrace the unknowns that lie ahead.
In the realm of philosophy, there are certain thought experiments that challenge the way we think about the nature of identity, change, and continuity. One such thought experiment is the paradox of Theseus’s Ship, an ancient puzzle that has intrigued philosophers for centuries. At its core, it raises profound questions about what it means for something—or someone—to remain the same over time, even when it undergoes significant changes. 
In life, we all face challenges. Whether at work, in relationships, or in the pursuit of personal goals, problems are an unavoidable part of the journey. These obstacles can test our patience, resilience, and growth. However, some people seem to create their own problems—sometimes without even realizing it. They may subconsciously make choices that lead to unnecessary difficulties or adopt a mindset that attracts more conflict. Then, they take on the role of the victim, acting as though life has been unfair to them. This behavior not only creates emotional strain for those around them but is also deeply harmful to the person doing it. Why? Because those who play the victim of their own problems always lose. They lose control over their lives, their potential for growth, and their ability to change their circumstances. 
The saying “If you’ve become arrogant, you no longer need another enemy.” carries profound wisdom about the dangers of arrogance and how it can become a person’s greatest adversary. Arrogance blinds us to our own flaws, prevents us from learning from others, and often isolates us from those who could help us grow. When we allow arrogance to take hold, we sabotage our own success, relationships, and personal growth, making external enemies unnecessary—our worst enemy becomes ourselves. We become so consumed with self-importance that we fail to recognize the opportunities for improvement and connection all around us.