2022 A Year of Big Losses and Big Achievements
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Reflecting on the year 2022, it stands as a chapter defined by perseverance, challenges, and a mosaic of experiences. The culmination of an arduous journey was marked by the completion of my doctoral studies, a milestone achieved through relentless dedication. However, amidst personal triumphs, our lives were overshadowed by profound sorrow as we bid farewell to my wife’s mother, experiencing the profound grief that comes with loss. “What goes away does not come back.” This simple yet profound observation encapsulates the inevitability of change and the irreversible nature of certain experiences. Life is a continuous journey, and moments, once lived, become part of the tapestry of our past.
On a brighter note, our son embarked on a new chapter by starting school, where he not only delved into the world of education but also learned the fundamental skills of reading and writing. Witnessing these firsts alongside him became a source of joy and a reminder of the beauty inherent in life’s simple yet significant moments.
Motivated by the desire to document and share our experiences, I decided to create this website, a digital canvas to capture the essence of our journey, from academic achievements to personal milestones. It serves as a testament to the multifaceted nature of life and the stories that shape our existence.
The year also unfolded with a second visit to Istanbul, a city that never fails to enchant with its rich history and vibrant culture. Over the course of 10 days, we immersed ourselves in the myriad of places the city has to offer, solidifying our appreciation for the beauty and diversity encapsulated within its bounds.
However, not all encounters were as uplifting. At my workplace, I faced the shortcomings of certain individuals, realizing the undue importance I had accorded to unwarranted opinions. This revelation prompted a recalibration of priorities and a heightened awareness of investing energy where it truly matters.
In the realm of the unexpected, my car experienced its first breakdown on the road, leaving me stranded for the first time. This episode served as a reminder of life’s unpredictability and the resilience required to navigate unforeseen challenges.
In essence, 2022 was a year of growth, both personal and intellectual, marked by triumphs, losses, and the invaluable lessons that come with living a full and varied life. As I reflect on the highs and lows of the past year, I carry forward the wisdom gained, ready to embrace the unknowns that lie ahead.
In life, we all face challenges. Whether at work, in relationships, or personal goals, problems are an unavoidable part of the journey. Some people, however, seem to create their own problems—sometimes without even realizing it. Then, they take on the role of the victim, acting as though life has been unfair to them. This behavior is not only exhausting for others but also harmful to the person doing it. Why? Because those who play the victim of their own problems always lose. 
The phrase “Those who cannot occupy themselves will be occupied by others”, speaks to the importance of self-direction, autonomy, and personal purpose. When we lack direction or fail to take control of how we spend our time and energy, we become vulnerable to being influenced, controlled, or even manipulated by others.