Find the Control Numbers
Instead of thinking forward from 1, reason backward from the losing target. Ask which number you would like to hand to your opponent so that every possible reply can be answered. With a maximum of three numbers per turn, the strategic spacing between control positions is four.
Game-Theory Connection
This is a small impartial sequential game closely related to subtraction games. It demonstrates backward induction, winning and losing states, strategy invariants and how an apparently conversational game can have a precise mathematical solution.